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Helping Yourself
In addition to taking care
of your health through good nutrition, exercise, and adequate rest, you
can help yourself in a number of ways:
- If your church has been
a source of support, continue attending services and staying in contact
with this group.
- Attend a support group,
lecture or class that pertains to your situation.
- Read books or articles about
the process of grief so you can identify what you are feeling and gain
some new ideas on how to help yourself.
- Express your feelings openly
with family and friends
- Crying is good.
- Keep a journal to identify
feelings and to see progress
- Holidays
and anniversaries need special planning to get through.
- Seek professional help if
things seem too hard.
- Be kind to yourself by:
- Giving yourself rewards
- Pampering yourself
- Resuming an old hobby
or finding a new one
- Carrying a letter, quote
or poem with you to read in tough times
- Trying to enjoy the
good days and don't feel guilty for doing so.
- Helping someone else
- Giving yourself permission
to grieve
- Trying not to expect
too much of yourself. Many chores can wait. Hire someone to help
you catch up.
- Postponing non-urgent
decisions.
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